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β£γPhoebeβs Five Footsteps to Findom Euphoriaγβ£
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Steps 1οΈβ£, 2οΈβ£ and 5οΈβ£ are essential.
Steps 3οΈβ£ and 4οΈβ£ are the subβs responsibility.
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Tribute $12.34 at
https://throne.com/princessphoebe, or
Beem
@princessphoebe.
This helps me know you are serious.
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Age verification. Findom is sex work, regardless of how much nudity is involved.
To verify your age, send
a) A clear picture of your ID. Censor the image so that the only visible parts are
(i) your face
(ii) your date of birth
b) A selfie of you holding the ID, with your pinky finger in a hook shape.
Some further accommodations for privacy are possible if you have concerns.
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Your expected budget, and any spending limits you want to set (per session or per week).
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Any boundaries or triggers for me to be aware of, eg. βI canβt deal with clownsβ, βI used to have an eating disorder so donβt make me do fastingβ, etc.
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A safety switch for communication. Usually I do it like this: If either one of us needs to set a boundary or say something outside of the dynamic, we use brackets, [like this].
example:
Sβ: βi need to stop, this is too muchβ
Dβ: *ignores, continues draining*
Sβ: β[i need to stop, this is too much]β
Dβ: β[Got it. Thanks for telling me.]β
Dβ: *stops session and initiates aftercare and discussion*
Send "[Safety Switch Confirmed]" if you understand and approve this method.
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After these steps are complete, we can begin. ππ₯
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